Mindfulness for Youth – 6 Week Workshop

Posted on July 20, 2017

Mindfulness for Youth Program

Mindfulness for Youth  – 6 Week Workshop

Is your child experiencing anxiety and stress?
Could they benefit from better concentration?
Are they struggling with overwhelm and frustration?

Mindfulness can help alleviate these symptoms.

Teens experience the most stress and anxiety at back-to-school time. This fall, equip your teen with skills for success!

Our popular, interactive 6-series workshop will be offered from September 26 – October 31 from 6:30 to 8pm at Delbrook Rec Centre.

This 6-part workshop will explain how our brains work when we are stressed and learn practical tips for managing anxiety, fear and upset. A mindfulness practice improves concentration and overall well-being.

Space is limited, must be ages 14-17  years old.

Please fill out the form below to register, or email bachcounsellingoffice@gmail.com.

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Mindfulness for Youth Program

Posted on April 29, 2016

Mindfulness For Youth ProgramStart Date: May 15th, 2016
Location: Our primary location at 15th and Lonsdale in North Vancouver
Rate: $235

Hi Friends and Parents,

I’m excited to let you know we are starting our first Mindfulness for Youth Program.  We are looking for youth 13-15 years who are interested in learning more about how their brain works and how to work with their brains!

The more we learn about the practice of mindfulness and the brain, the more we see that mindfulness is one of the keys to improving our ability to:

  • manage stress
  • perform better on tests
  • improve concentration
  • reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression
  • increase overall wellbeing

With the incredible pressures and stressors on youth today, coupled with rising rates of anxiety in youth, we specifically designed this program to assist youth in changing the way they manage stress. Our Mindfulness for Youth Program brings knowledge and understanding through instruction and practice in a small group setting where youth will:

  • Discover how to identify the difference between helpful levels of stress vs damaging anxiety
  • Learn what a resilient and flexible mind is, and how it can be best developed
  • Gain an understanding of stress and the brain physiology
  • Develop tools to identify and better manage stress
  • Take home a collection of mindfulness skills

Our first 4-week Pilot Mindfulness for Youth starts May 15th, 4-6pm at our primary location at 15th and Lonsdale in North Vancouver. Being a pilot program, we are offering the discounted rate: $235

This is a small group setting with very limited spots available. Please contact me with any questions and/or to register.

10 Tips On Mindful Separation: How To Tell Your Children

Posted on March 26, 2015

holding-hands-b-wYou have decided to make the difficult step to separate. You’ve decided to be mindful and collaborative in your separation. Now, how do you tell your children? Here are some sound guidelines to follow when speaking with your children about your separation.

  1. Be prepared. Timing is important. Once you have some concrete plans in place, you are ready to take the first step. Try to iron out as much of the detail as possible so when your children ask you questions, you are prepared with solid answers. Your kids will respond better knowing how their day-to-day lives will be impacted by this change.
  2. Book a family meeting. Let your children know you need to have a serious family discussion. Book this time earlier in the day when you can spend some time together following the discussion. Do not do this before bedtime.
  3. Know the plan. Be prepared to answer questions such as, “Where will I live” and “When will I see you?” You need to have already made the main decisions about the separation agreement: children’s schedules and living arrangements. Their input can be taken into account so they feel heard; however, the primary decisions are best made prior to this initial meeting. Again, this shows them you are working together in their best interest and it takes the bigger decisions out of their hands. Consider the parts of this situation they can control and let them know about these aspects. For example, “You get to choose the room colour and bed sheets for your new bedroom.”
  4. Tell them together. Modeling your ability to work cooperatively helps the kids feel more confident that you are both at the helm. This provides more certainty for them and allows them to ask you questions together, again providing a more secure base for this significant life transition.
  5. How much should I tell them? When your children have questions, do not speak to them about any details of the breakdown of your marriage but rather speak in generalities about how you will all move forward. “We have had some wonderful years together but sometimes couples grow apart. We have both decided that this is the healthiest decision. Sometimes adult love changes, unlike a parent’s love for a child that remains forever.” Reassure them that adult love is different than a parent’s love for their child.
  6. Be prepared for emotion. When your children have an emotional response, do your best to allow this and stay supportive. Let them know that it is normal for them to have feelings about such a change in their lives. If you have some emotion, this is normal. You can acknowledge your feelings and swiftly redirect the conversation back to the children and their response. Be kind and open to each child’s reaction. No one child is the same. Stay open and invite their questions.
  7. Similar to #3, know the plan. Discuss the upcoming changes to ensure the children know what will change and what will remain the same. Let them know about specific changes and begin to formulate a visual of how things will look differently and what will remain. Giving this information will help them settle. The unknown is hard. They will want to learn what they can and cannot control about this impending change.
  8. Be respectful and supportive of one another. This will go a long way to insulate the child from your adult conflict and protect their relationships with both of you. This can be very tricky. Kids often take on roles to protect their parents and take sides. This can be emotionally exhausting for kids and is not in their best interest. The more supportive you are of one another in this process, the better for the children. Do not talk to your child about what the other partner did that was wrong. Resist any temptation to blame your partner using your child as a sounding board. This will only set your child up for emotional stress and take they away from a healthier emotional life.
  9. Provide resources for your kids. Gather a few age-appropriate books on separation and divorce, read them with your children and leave them somewhere special so the kids can access them at anytime. Check in with them periodically to see how they are doing with the new information. Be aware of mood changes and keep your lines of communication open.
  10. Seek the help you need individually and as a family from professionals with the appropriate clinical expertise. Find other collaboratively trained professionals such as lawyers and financial advisors to support your family through a collaborative process.

Remember, working cooperatively with your spouse is the best for your kids. A collaborative separation and divorce will cost the family less emotionally and financially, and will keep your children’s wellness as something you and your spouse maintain as your central focus throughout this challenging time of transition.